Unfortunately for her followers, the Nigerian blogger is not a doer of her philosophy: She was busy enjoying premarital sex while she preached against it. This admission is implicit in one of her recent blog posts where she revealed the identity of her newborn son and also admitted that the father of her son is Sholaye Jeremi.
Her post details succinctly her romantic journey with Sholaye Jeremi and the inexplicable love lost between them. The estranged "couple" met in 2015 at a location in Lagos, kickstarting their whirlwind love-story. What is not lost in the story is the fact that Linda Ikeji fell cheaply for Sholaye Jeremi, as she was desperate for love:
"At the time we met, I was 35 and he was 37 and I'd been single for nearly 4 years. I was definitely searching and fell in love almost immediately and so we became an item.
"... Most of the time, I carried my laptop to his home to enable me to work and at the same time spend the whole day with him."Evidently, Linda Ikeji was desperate and forcing herself on the Sholaye Jeremi, this possible explains Jeremy's reluctance to continue with the relationship. In Linda's word, "later he (Jeremy) would tell me scare him off. My public life. He claims he's a private business man and didn't want the attention being with me will bring to him and I told I understood."
Here comes here confession of premarital sex:
"Then I fell (sic) pregnant. It wasn't planned, it just happened; though we talked about having a child together just two months before I fell (sic) pregnant," Linda Ikeji wrote.
One thing one can take away from this statement is that the two had been having sex prior to Linda's conception. In her admission, the pregnancy was not planned; meaning, that it resulted from one of their numerous sexual encounters. Encounters that were unprotected, despite her position that the relationship was neither stable nor consistent.
This is the height of recklessness from someone who mentors young girls on premarital sex and relationships.
The soiling of Sholanye Jeremy's name:
Like most scorned ladies, Linda did not act fail to throw a few muds at Jeremy's image. All through her epistle, she used the term "claimed" when reporting things Jeremy told her about his feeling or intentions. The optics here is that one will disbelief the true intentions of Jeremy, as he will cast as an untruthful deceitful person.
Besides this, she wrote about the ups and downs of the relationship, as though Jeremy was the inconsistent one, who was out for the play and never wanted the commitment. She also downgraded the man's worth by stating that Jeremy lived in "a 3-bedroom flat at what used be the 5th roundabout in Lekki", while she had just recently moved to her house at Banana Island. This detail was unnecessary.
Then came the revelation that Jeremy abandoned her when she was pregnant.
Questions unanswered:
1. Does she admit that her alleged engagement was phony and never happened? It was really a ploy to deceive public. Why go that length if you were not feeling guilty of what you had done;
2. Linda made every effort to hint of Sholanye Jeremy's intentions of getting her pregnant. If this was true, why would a man who said he would not want part of the public attention that comes with your job, get you pregnant. It is possible that Linda was the one who wanted the pregnancy for whatever reason. Hence, Jeremy's decision to stay far during the pregnancy (if he actually stayed away, it is not good. He should have stayed by for the sake of his son).
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